What do I do that feels good?

movies? A big yes! :) A stroll, a talk, a laughter, chocolates, making kids laugh and cuddle, bringing smiles to faces, dancing instead of walking, random shopping, book-shops, morning's freshness. Yes. The list is super long. :)

Real love..

One huge mistake me often commit is that we tend to try to fit ourselves into the life and expectations of people we love because of the need to be loved back. We forget that love is not a barter. It has no price tags or return gifts attached to it. It's free. One of the reasons why love is known to be equal to freedom.
If you love someone, love without any expectations at all. Or else it's no lov

e. Similarly if someone loves you, they must accept you with your flaws, just the way you are. They should try to help you fix the flaws that should go away from you in order for you to grow into a better person and have a better life. But they shouldn't have even a slight will to make you fit into their zone of expectations. That's REAL love. Real love never hurts. :)