One huge mistake me often commit is that we tend to try to fit ourselves into the life and expectations of people we love because of the need to be loved back. We forget that love is not a barter. It has no price tags or return gifts attached to it. It's free. One of the reasons why love is known to be equal to freedom.
If you love someone, love without any expectations at all. Or else it's no lov
If you love someone, love without any expectations at all. Or else it's no lov
e. Similarly if someone loves you, they must accept you with your flaws, just the way you are. They should try to help you fix the flaws that should go away from you in order for you to grow into a better person and have a better life. But they shouldn't have even a slight will to make you fit into their zone of expectations. That's REAL love. Real love never hurts. :)
Wish everyone felt that way and the world wud have ben a better place....
ReplyDeleteLove hurts. It does not matter how good it gets. What matters is that you are willing to take the risks and keep moving forward. That is how its is done.
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